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Sunday, November 27, 2022

Believing Through The Fear

When we adopt children who have a trauma history we have high hopes. We think that it may only be a few months before they acclimate to the family and start to be more calm. We hope that love and Jesus and therapists and even our own will for them to be better may just do the trick. But, as time progresses and behaviors become more aggressive, not less, or, as their stages of life progress and hormones do a number on them, we start to feel afraid.

Sunday, November 27, 2022

Afraid that they will never be okay. Afraid that they will end up in jail or disappear as a runaway, never to be seen again.

๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ. ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ.

There are so many verses in the Bible about fear.

Hear are a few-
Perfect love casts out all fear- 1 John 4:18

You came near when I called to you and said, "Do not fear." Lamentations 3:57

For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you Do not fear; I will help you. Isaiah 41:13

๐—•๐˜‚๐˜, ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—š๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ฑ, ๐—œ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€๐—ฒ. ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ณ.

Do we believe that He has their best interests at heart? Do we believe He loves them more than we do? Do we believe they don't really belong to us but to HIM?

Because if we believe, then we can let go of fear. And if we let go of fear, that is when God is free to do His best work--not only in their lives, but in ours.

So today my friends, believe. Believe He is bigger. Believe He loves them more. And fear not.

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Sandra is not a physician and the relationship between Sandra and her clients is not of prescriber and patient, but as educator and client. It is fully the client's choice whether or not to take advantage of the information Sandra presents. Homeopathy doesn't "treat" an illness; it addresses the entire person as a matter of wholeness that is an educational process, not a medical one. Sandra believes that the advice and diagnosis of a physician is often in order.